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The rapid shift from obeying Allah Almighty in Ramadan to
disobeying Him and moving away from His way after Ramadan has
its reasons, the most important of which are the following:
1.
Absence or lack of sincerity during the acts of worship that
used to be performed:
This insincerity is exemplified in the person who performs
prayer or pays charity so that people will see him. In doing so
he may achieve a certain rank, some material benefit from them,
or the like. Such a person does not perform acts of worship with
the intention of pleasing Allah Almighty, and achieving a great
reward in the Hereafter.
2.
Absence of concentration during the performance of the acts of
worship despite the presence of sincerity:
This leads to the person not benefiting from performing such
acts, not filling the heart with faith and not drawing his heart
closer to his Lord, a thing which would have prompted him to
persist in doing good and abandoning evil.
3.
Lack of moderation in acts of worship, being over enthusiastic
and exerting much effort than that which each person can bear:
This makes the soul change afterwards because it does not
possess the quality of persistence. This happens although the
Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) ordered us to do
those deeds which are within our capabilities.
4.
Weakness of the soul and its yielding to the
insinuations of the devil: This occurs because of the
absence of good company, or the companionship of bad people who
one is unable to affect, so one is affected by it instead.
Another reason is abandoning acts of worship suddenly;
therefore, one's soul becomes empty and likely to be filled with
devilish insinuations and love of committing acts of
disobedience.
5.
The soul’s need for recreation after periods of patience in
Ramadan:
This makes it seek the utmost enjoyment, as compensation for
what it has missed. So it indulges in pleasure until it
surpasses the wide range of the lawful and enters into the
unlawful.
2.
In order to cure this shift, which may afflict some people in
different degrees that vary from one person to another in degree
and form, one has to apply the following means, the most of
which are in fact the opposite of the above reasons:
1.
Gradual training to be sincere when performing every act:
Each act should only be performed with the intention to please
Allah Almighty, to gain His reward, and to benefit from it by
enjoying happiness in this world and reward in the Hereafter.
This can be achieved through hiding the act as much as possible,
not mentioning it afterwards, and bearing good intentions while
doing it. Then one is to ask Allah for His help and support and
supplicate to Him to help you resist devilish insinuations of
ostentation while performing the act. After that, one should ask
for Allah’s forgiveness for any ostentation that may have been
felt during or after the act and the person should have the firm
will to not repeat feelings of ostentation in following acts.
2.
Gradual training on concentration during the different acts of
worship through not performing too many acts and being moderate:
What is important, for example, is not reading too many chapters
of the Qur’an but rather it is enough to read some verses with
contemplation followed by practicing what is understood.
Furthermore, repeating one or two of the supplications of
remembering Allah with due contemplation that moves the heart,
is much better than repeating many supplications without gaining
any benefit, and so on.
3.
Looking for good company
like that which was available in Ramadan, merging with it, and
clinging to it, for it serves as a shield against devilish
insinuations. The Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him)
says,
“Indeed, the wolf eats of sheep only the faraway one.”
(Reported by Abu Dawud with a good chain of transmission).
Keeping good company supports you to continue in obedience; it
was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
said,
“A person follows the religion of his friend; so each one of you
should consider whom he makes his friend.”
4.
Avoidance of sudden slackness after Ramadan or abandoning the
acts of obedience:
One should continue to perform acts of worship after Ramadan
even in a lesser form. Perhaps this is one of the wisdoms
inferred from the hadith in which the Messenger (peace and
blessings be upon him) says,
“He who observed the fast of Ramadan and then followed it with
six (fasts) of Shawwal; it would be as if he fasted
perpetually.”
(Muslim)
Maybe observing fast for some days in Shawwal, and by analogy,
performing some Rak`ahs of optional night prayer, some prayers
in the Mosque, reciting some verses of the Qur’an, paying some
charity, and doing other acts of obedience that used to be
observed during the honorable month would prevent sudden
emptiness in the soul. This is intended to remind the soul of
the sweetness and good effects of worship and to keep the inner
joy that was attained during Ramadan. This makes one try not to
lose such pleasure, so that at least one would persevere in
doing the minimum level that achieves this pleasure.
5.
Preparation of lawful recreation:
The soul leaves Ramadan while it needs some rest and recreation.
This can be attained through trips, journeys, contests, games,
visits, and other permissible worldly pleasures. If the soul
does not find this recreation by permissible means, it might get
depressed and weakened, discontinue obedience, or even look for
enjoyment in prohibited matters!
6.
Supplication to Allah for whoever has changed after Ramadan:
People should supplicate such a person, as their supplication
will eventually be answered. The Messenger (peace and blessings
be upon him) says,
“Whenever a Muslim servant supplicates for his brother in his
absence, the Angel says: Amen, and the same be for you too.”
(Muslim) This person should supplicate for himself as well.
Finally, it has to be taken into consideration that curing and
educating souls need gradual advancement, patience and a long
time, just as the Qur’an and the Messenger (peace and blessings
be upon him) did with the Companions (may Allah be pleased with
them), for souls are not like paintings that can be drawn or
painted in a day or two.
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